Ruined orgasm: the complete guide

Ruined orgasms are very popular, especially in the world of domination. This guide will give you a better understanding of this concept, why more and more men are having ruined orgasms, and how to trigger one. You will also learn techniques for having the most powerful orgasms and spicing up your sex life. Discovering this type of orgasm may indeed make you want to explore other facets of sexuality. Somewhere between pleasure and frustration, ruined orgasm is something quite complex to master.

What is a ruined orgasm?

Before giving you advice on how to induce a ruined orgasm, it is important to understand what this concept entails. When a man is about to ejaculate, all stimulation of the penis must be stopped and ejaculation allowed to occur. This way, the man will ejaculate but will not experience any pleasure. It is therefore necessary to stop masturbation once the point of no return has been reached. Ejaculation will take longer to occur and the sensations of ejaculation will be significantly reduced. In BDSM, this is called a “ruined orgasm,” and the dominatrix uses this technique to frustrate her submissive. It is also a way to enable a man to have multiple orgasms in a shorter period of time. Finally, the semen will flow out not in spurts but in longer streams. It should be noted that with this type of orgasm, the man remains erect after ejaculating.

How to trigger it?

The first step in bringing a man to a ruined orgasm is to start arousing and stimulating him. You can stimulate his penis in various ways to give him an erection. Once the man has an erection and begins to experience pleasure, you must pay close attention to whether he begins to have spasms of pleasure. As soon as he indicates that he is about to ejaculate, you stop all stimulation of his member. If the “point of no return” has been reached, then he will ejaculate and have a ruined orgasm. This means he will not have experienced any pleasure and his brain will have secreted very few hormones. He will then feel frustrated. For a more effective ruined orgasm, the man can masturbate 24 hours beforehand or less in order to have less semen. Having less semen will make the orgasm more frustrating and less pleasurable.

Edging, to make it even more intense

For an even more frustrating ruined orgasm, you can use the edging technique. This involves bringing a man to the brink of orgasm and then stopping touching him. This will cause his erection to subside a little, along with his arousal. After that, resume stimulating the male sexual organ after 1 or 2 minutes and repeat the process. This way, the man will continue to be aroused for several minutes, and ruining his orgasm will cause even more frustration. This technique is not very well known, but it is very useful when done correctly. It can also be used in combination with other practices, particularly in the world of domination.

Domination and ruined orgasm

Ruined orgasm is something that is very common in the BDSM world. In this context, there is usually a dominatrix with a submissive. The dominatrix will control her submissive’s orgasms and use ruined orgasms to punish him. She may also make him wear a chastity cage for a long period of time and then “reward” him with a ruined orgasm.

Now you know everything there is to know about ruined orgasms and the best ways to trigger them. Whether you want to try this type of orgasm at least once or practice it regularly, you now know the reasons why people use it.